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Luu Sky Sapphire wrote:You're only 16 years old. You should be somewhat responsible. XD Enjoy being a kid/young teen while you can! Do something outrageous! haha!
shezaei-neko wrote:Truly, truly, truly outrageous!! :3
The only outrageous thing I've done so far (IMO) is going to a faraway mall while it is class hours. Or probably trying to go to the university in the midst of the high flood. I agree to what Luu has mentioned above.Luu Sky Sapphire wrote:XD Ruby-chan is kind of uke though, she may not jump out of planes, swim with Piranhas and battle Somali Pirates any time soon.
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Hehehe, there will be opportunities as you get older. Your teenage boredom and angst will sort of urge you to go out and do more with your life. It happened to me and everyone that ever existed.
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Yes, just ANOTHER something in common... >:3Luu Sky Sapphire wrote:Being a "lone wolf" character archetype does that. You and the British Kaichou have something in common. :3Nymphetamine wrote:I guess being the middle child is the best one can be? Since people say being the oldest or being the youngest suck :PBut in my family, I wish I was the older one Being the black sheep really sucks!
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The Firstborn Child
Typically, a first child grows up to be a conscientious and achievement-oriented adult who enjoys being in control and strives to please others. The idea is that when they were young, they had their parents all to themselves for a while, then lost that privilege. As a result, even as adults, they look for ways to gain back the undivided attention and approval they got used to receiving before their siblings came along. They’re also often very organized and prefer to be in charge, which produces success in academics and career.
What it Means for Your Relationship
The good news for a firstborn when it comes to relationships, then, is that they’re most likely reliable. You can count on them to be where they said they’d be, when they said they’d be there, and much of the guesswork of a relationship will be removed. The flip side of this, of course, is that they may need to work on being a bit more spontaneous and free-spirited. Also, a firstborn should be very aware of their potential tendency to try to maintain complete control when they interact with others; their relationships will benefit if they keep in mind the importance of compromise and collaboration.
The Middle Child
The middle child can often feel “squeezed out” by their siblings. The older sibling gets more responsibility and opportunities, while the younger sibling is the baby of the family and is thus coddled and adored. The good news is that middle children gets lots of practice at negotiating conflict, since they have to deal with it in both directions. Their flexibility and sociability means that they’ll often end up being the kind of laid-back people that others like to be around. They also usually show strengths when it comes to compromise and coalition building.
What it Means for Your Relationship
As a result, a middle child often makes a very good romantic partner. Since middle children are the least likely to have been spoiled in any way, they’re most likely willing to work hard to create a happy and meaningful relationship. One pitfall to watch out for, though, is the desire to avoid conflict, which middle children typically hate. They’ve experienced enough conflict and therefore do all that they can to steer clear of it. That, of course, is a dangerous inclination in a relationship, where it’s often crucial that conflict be acknowledged and dealt with.
The Youngest Child
The youngest child is the one most likely to ask, “Why?” This ability to view issues from a critical perspective means they conform less and often come up with creative solutions to problems. One potential drawback is that they’ve often been cared for by so many people in their life that they can expect others to take responsibility for them. The youngest child is often more outgoing and social, and they’ll usually take more risks, meaning that they may get to experience more diverse opportunities than their older siblings.
What it Means for Your Relationship
What this means in a relationship, then, is that the youngest child offers all kinds of fun and excitement. Whether on a first date or in a serious relationship, you can count on a youngest child to find spontaneous, unexpected ways to amp up the excitement. This spontaneity can also lead to potential problems in a relationship, though, since it’s not always accompanied by dependency and accountability. Also, those powerful social skills bring all kinds of rewards, but they may not always be used for good; youngest children need to be careful not to abuse those powers by manipulating to get what they want. The
Only Child
An only child is much like a firstborn, except that he or she never had to share the parents or get to experience the conflict and connection that exists between siblings. Only children, therefore, are often mature and can be aloof, expecting to receive special circumstances from those around them. Even as children, they’re usually serious and dependable, and like the oldest child, they will often find great success in school and career.
What it Means for Your Relationship
Only children bring many relationship skills to the table. They’re dependable and sensitive, and willing to sacrifice for the people they care about. They’re good communicators, and since they lived alone with their parents for so long, they’ve already had lots of practice at being in relationships with adults. Perfectionism is one trait that an only child needs to watch out for; this can present a real challenge to a partner, especially if that partner happens to be a youngest child. Another issue to remain aware of if you’re an only child is your tendency to proceed slowly. Your caution and matter-of-factness are definite strengths in much of your life. But there may be times when you need to “step out” a bit more and take some risks that allow a relationship to move forward and grow deeper.
http://www.eharmony.com/dating-advice/about-you/birth-order-and-your-relationship/
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I've never been in love before, but I've dated both middle and youngest children. (all being the same age as me too) I'm not sure if the description is true, but my youngest relationships lasted longer than my middle relationships. I would be protective of them and they're fun to be around. lol My middle relationships were good to talk to, but I found us head butting each other at times. Our relationships were shorter, but they had more meaning to me.
Typically, a first child grows up to be a conscientious and achievement-oriented adult who enjoys being in control and strives to please others. The idea is that when they were young, they had their parents all to themselves for a while, then lost that privilege. As a result, even as adults, they look for ways to gain back the undivided attention and approval they got used to receiving before their siblings came along. They’re also often very organized and prefer to be in charge, which produces success in academics and career.
What it Means for Your Relationship
The good news for a firstborn when it comes to relationships, then, is that they’re most likely reliable. You can count on them to be where they said they’d be, when they said they’d be there, and much of the guesswork of a relationship will be removed. The flip side of this, of course, is that they may need to work on being a bit more spontaneous and free-spirited. Also, a firstborn should be very aware of their potential tendency to try to maintain complete control when they interact with others; their relationships will benefit if they keep in mind the importance of compromise and collaboration.
The Middle Child
The middle child can often feel “squeezed out” by their siblings. The older sibling gets more responsibility and opportunities, while the younger sibling is the baby of the family and is thus coddled and adored. The good news is that middle children gets lots of practice at negotiating conflict, since they have to deal with it in both directions. Their flexibility and sociability means that they’ll often end up being the kind of laid-back people that others like to be around. They also usually show strengths when it comes to compromise and coalition building.
What it Means for Your Relationship
As a result, a middle child often makes a very good romantic partner. Since middle children are the least likely to have been spoiled in any way, they’re most likely willing to work hard to create a happy and meaningful relationship. One pitfall to watch out for, though, is the desire to avoid conflict, which middle children typically hate. They’ve experienced enough conflict and therefore do all that they can to steer clear of it. That, of course, is a dangerous inclination in a relationship, where it’s often crucial that conflict be acknowledged and dealt with.
The Youngest Child
The youngest child is the one most likely to ask, “Why?” This ability to view issues from a critical perspective means they conform less and often come up with creative solutions to problems. One potential drawback is that they’ve often been cared for by so many people in their life that they can expect others to take responsibility for them. The youngest child is often more outgoing and social, and they’ll usually take more risks, meaning that they may get to experience more diverse opportunities than their older siblings.
What it Means for Your Relationship
What this means in a relationship, then, is that the youngest child offers all kinds of fun and excitement. Whether on a first date or in a serious relationship, you can count on a youngest child to find spontaneous, unexpected ways to amp up the excitement. This spontaneity can also lead to potential problems in a relationship, though, since it’s not always accompanied by dependency and accountability. Also, those powerful social skills bring all kinds of rewards, but they may not always be used for good; youngest children need to be careful not to abuse those powers by manipulating to get what they want. The
Only Child
An only child is much like a firstborn, except that he or she never had to share the parents or get to experience the conflict and connection that exists between siblings. Only children, therefore, are often mature and can be aloof, expecting to receive special circumstances from those around them. Even as children, they’re usually serious and dependable, and like the oldest child, they will often find great success in school and career.
What it Means for Your Relationship
Only children bring many relationship skills to the table. They’re dependable and sensitive, and willing to sacrifice for the people they care about. They’re good communicators, and since they lived alone with their parents for so long, they’ve already had lots of practice at being in relationships with adults. Perfectionism is one trait that an only child needs to watch out for; this can present a real challenge to a partner, especially if that partner happens to be a youngest child. Another issue to remain aware of if you’re an only child is your tendency to proceed slowly. Your caution and matter-of-factness are definite strengths in much of your life. But there may be times when you need to “step out” a bit more and take some risks that allow a relationship to move forward and grow deeper.
http://www.eharmony.com/dating-advice/about-you/birth-order-and-your-relationship/
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I've never been in love before, but I've dated both middle and youngest children. (all being the same age as me too) I'm not sure if the description is true, but my youngest relationships lasted longer than my middle relationships. I would be protective of them and they're fun to be around. lol My middle relationships were good to talk to, but I found us head butting each other at times. Our relationships were shorter, but they had more meaning to me.
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Words can't explain how inaccurate this isTinyTurtle wrote:
The Youngest Child
The youngest child is the one most likely to ask, “Why?” This ability to view issues from a critical perspective means they conform less and often come up with creative solutions to problems. One potential drawback is that they’ve often been cared for by so many people in their life that they can expect others to take responsibility for them. The youngest child is often more outgoing and social, and they’ll usually take more risks, meaning that they may get to experience more diverse opportunities than their older siblings.
What it Means for Your Relationship
What this means in a relationship, then, is that the youngest child offers all kinds of fun and excitement. Whether on a first date or in a serious relationship, you can count on a youngest child to find spontaneous, unexpected ways to amp up the excitement. This spontaneity can also lead to potential problems in a relationship, though, since it’s not always accompanied by dependency and accountability. Also, those powerful social skills bring all kinds of rewards, but they may not always be used for good; youngest children need to be careful not to abuse those powers by manipulating to get what they want
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Lol! Curse you Eharmony!Nymphetamine wrote:Words can't explain how inaccurate this isTinyTurtle wrote:
The Youngest Child
The youngest child is the one most likely to ask, “Why?” This ability to view issues from a critical perspective means they conform less and often come up with creative solutions to problems. One potential drawback is that they’ve often been cared for by so many people in their life that they can expect others to take responsibility for them. The youngest child is often more outgoing and social, and they’ll usually take more risks, meaning that they may get to experience more diverse opportunities than their older siblings.
What it Means for Your Relationship
What this means in a relationship, then, is that the youngest child offers all kinds of fun and excitement. Whether on a first date or in a serious relationship, you can count on a youngest child to find spontaneous, unexpected ways to amp up the excitement. This spontaneity can also lead to potential problems in a relationship, though, since it’s not always accompanied by dependency and accountability. Also, those powerful social skills bring all kinds of rewards, but they may not always be used for good; youngest children need to be careful not to abuse those powers by manipulating to get what they want
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CURSESTinyTurtle wrote:Lol! Curse you Eharmony!Nymphetamine wrote:Words can't explain how inaccurate this isTinyTurtle wrote:
The Youngest Child
The youngest child is the one most likely to ask, “Why?” This ability to view issues from a critical perspective means they conform less and often come up with creative solutions to problems. One potential drawback is that they’ve often been cared for by so many people in their life that they can expect others to take responsibility for them. The youngest child is often more outgoing and social, and they’ll usually take more risks, meaning that they may get to experience more diverse opportunities than their older siblings.
What it Means for Your Relationship
What this means in a relationship, then, is that the youngest child offers all kinds of fun and excitement. Whether on a first date or in a serious relationship, you can count on a youngest child to find spontaneous, unexpected ways to amp up the excitement. This spontaneity can also lead to potential problems in a relationship, though, since it’s not always accompanied by dependency and accountability. Also, those powerful social skills bring all kinds of rewards, but they may not always be used for good; youngest children need to be careful not to abuse those powers by manipulating to get what they want
But seriously, being the baby in the family, I'm nowhere near outgoing (more painfully shy), my older sibling experienced way much more than I, and I felt like I was being more "neglected" than cared for
And the relationship part, my social skills are way more poor than Haruka's grammar, and I don't bring much excitement (then again, my experience in dating is very limited). I do have the power to manipulate, however, but I do not use it in order to get what I want. I try not to, at least. Once in a while it happens without me noticing
But yeah, INACCURATE
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Perhaps your true love would have to be a guy who doesn't mind chillin' indoors a lot and loves Metal, right? I'm sure he's out there...scheming...planning.
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I'm more focused on hoping this unknown Prince Charming would meet the matches of my (lack of) sexualityLuu Sky Sapphire wrote: Perhaps your true love would have to be a guy who doesn't mind chillin' indoors a lot and loves Metal, right? I'm sure he's out there...scheming...planning.
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Would he have to come to the conclusion that there won't be any sex in the relationship?Nymphetamine wrote:
I'm more focused on hoping this unknown Prince Charming would meet the matches of my (lack of) sexuality
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It's possible, though I wouldn't give a definite "yes". Who knows, maybe I'll end up like a (straight) NatsukiLuu Sky Sapphire wrote:Would he have to come to the conclusion that there won't be any sex in the relationship?Nymphetamine wrote:
I'm more focused on hoping this unknown Prince Charming would meet the matches of my (lack of) sexuality
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The Middle Child
The middle child can often feel “squeezed out” by their siblings. The older sibling gets more responsibility and opportunities, while the younger sibling is the baby of the family and is thus coddled and adored. The good news is that middle children gets lots of practice at negotiating conflict, since they have to deal with it in both directions. Their flexibility and sociability means that they’ll often end up being the kind of laid-back people that others like to be around. They also usually show strengths when it comes to compromise and coalition building.
What it Means for Your Relationship
As a result, a middle child often makes a very good romantic partner. Since middle children are the least likely to have been spoiled in any way, they’re most likely willing to work hard to create a happy and meaningful relationship. One pitfall to watch out for, though, is the desire to avoid conflict, which middle children typically hate. They’ve experienced enough conflict and therefore do all that they can to steer clear of it. That, of course, is a dangerous inclination in a relationship, where it’s often crucial that conflict be acknowledged and dealt with.
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For my case, even if I'm a middle child, I got all the spoiling I could get. I am 4 years older than my younger brother so during my childhood, I was totally spoiled, cuddled, I always get I want, stuff like that. Ever since he came, all the attention was given to him, leaving me a bit neglected. And as I was growing older, I kinda looked for a sisterly figure, since my older sister and I are not really close.
Likewise, I've been the type of person who tries to avoid conflict as much as possible. I either try to avoid conflict or avoid being the cause of conflict, which leads me to wasted chances, even getting myself hurt in the end. I guess it's one reason why presently, I am not so sure about certain things.
The middle child can often feel “squeezed out” by their siblings. The older sibling gets more responsibility and opportunities, while the younger sibling is the baby of the family and is thus coddled and adored. The good news is that middle children gets lots of practice at negotiating conflict, since they have to deal with it in both directions. Their flexibility and sociability means that they’ll often end up being the kind of laid-back people that others like to be around. They also usually show strengths when it comes to compromise and coalition building.
What it Means for Your Relationship
As a result, a middle child often makes a very good romantic partner. Since middle children are the least likely to have been spoiled in any way, they’re most likely willing to work hard to create a happy and meaningful relationship. One pitfall to watch out for, though, is the desire to avoid conflict, which middle children typically hate. They’ve experienced enough conflict and therefore do all that they can to steer clear of it. That, of course, is a dangerous inclination in a relationship, where it’s often crucial that conflict be acknowledged and dealt with.
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For my case, even if I'm a middle child, I got all the spoiling I could get. I am 4 years older than my younger brother so during my childhood, I was totally spoiled, cuddled, I always get I want, stuff like that. Ever since he came, all the attention was given to him, leaving me a bit neglected. And as I was growing older, I kinda looked for a sisterly figure, since my older sister and I are not really close.
Likewise, I've been the type of person who tries to avoid conflict as much as possible. I either try to avoid conflict or avoid being the cause of conflict, which leads me to wasted chances, even getting myself hurt in the end. I guess it's one reason why presently, I am not so sure about certain things.
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A spoiled middle child?! Your case is quite unique, Franny. >:3 You better count your blessings every night!
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I know right? That's because there's quite an age gap between me and my younger sibs. I am 4 years older than my younger brother and 10 years older than my younger sister (may she rest in peace). During my younger years, I was a spoiled child until circumstances changed.Luu Sky Sapphire wrote:A spoiled middle child?! Your case is quite unique, Franny. >:3 You better count your blessings every night!
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Times change, Franny. What's the most you're spoiled with now? Birthday money? XDDDDD Oh how the years punish us~
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Oh I wish I am being spoiled with birthday money, Luu. But yes, times do change. :)Luu Sky Sapphire wrote:Times change, Franny. What's the most you're spoiled with now? Birthday money? XDDDDD Oh how the years punish us~
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Ara ara~ Weren't you spoiled like crazy, Kiros? :shock:Kiros Razer wrote:Youngest child.
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some ways yes.things money bought in childhood replaced other needs in a child's life.Luu Sky Sapphire wrote:Ara ara~ Weren't you spoiled like crazy, Kiros? :shock:Kiros Razer wrote:Youngest child.
like support, nurturing, etc.
my siblings were like 15, 12, 8 years older.
my sister was the oldest moved out first.
survived two fiesty brothers lol.
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LOL! Most sisters I know have a hard time with ONE feisty brother. haha! You are a good person, Kiros.Kiros Razer wrote:some ways yes.things money bought in childhood replaced other needs in a child's life.
like support, nurturing, etc.
my siblings were like 15, 12, 8 years older.
my sister was the oldest moved out first.
survived two fiesty brothers lol.
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I suppose it must be a bit hard to have siblings where the age gap is so big.
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my one brother taught me how to make nunchuks out of broom handles as a kid. Lol he taught me to hit below the belt. he paid the price a lot so did my other brother.i used to throw rocks in the air and hit them with a bat.i had an alimunimum bat that was heavy.i pillow fought my one brother who was 8 years older a lot.he picked on me on me but wouldnt let anyone else.my other brother wanted to listen to music draw and write, read comics.o had to be quiet in his room.or else he yelled.Luu Sky Sapphire wrote:LOL! Most sisters I know have a hard time with ONE feisty brother. haha! You are a good person, Kiros.Kiros Razer wrote:some ways yes.things money bought in childhood replaced other needs in a child's life.
like support, nurturing, etc.
my siblings were like 15, 12, 8 years older.
my sister was the oldest moved out first.
survived two fiesty brothers lol.
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Haha! You were (can I say "still are"...) a regular tomboy, Kiros. When you brother wasn't making Bruce Lee weapons out of broom handles, he must of exposed a more gentle side to him? Sensitivity is rarely seen in a guy.
I should know. >:3 They'll never break me!
Seriously, you and wetochan are a lot alike in this area. Picking up a lot from the brothers in terms of hobbies.
I should know. >:3 They'll never break me!
Seriously, you and wetochan are a lot alike in this area. Picking up a lot from the brothers in terms of hobbies.
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i dressed like the one 8 years older, wore his cologne, bought deodorant like his.even if he picked on me. the one 12 years older thats more quiet we have more in common, he writes songs though as well poetry, draws super hereos, we would read comics together i'd play his sega systems since i had nintendo as a kid. the other brother liked girls and i had a crush on his gf when i was 8.she was super nice loved pets she bought me things too.Luu Sky Sapphire wrote:Haha! You were (can I say "still are"...) a regular tomboy, Kiros. When you brother wasn't making Bruce Lee weapons out of broom handles, he must of exposed a more gentle side to him? Sensitivity is rarely seen in a guy.
I should know. >:3 They'll never break me!
Seriously, you and wetochan are a lot alike in this area. Picking up a lot from the brothers in terms of hobbies.
i'm a tomboy, i taught my child a lot (my son) i used to teach him self defense.
always told him it was for that reason let him hit my palms.
i wanted him to not be bullied but speak your needs.
He is more vocal than me, good kid.
i listen to him too..i need to do it more now.
He's in a new grade things change.etc.
he accepts that i probably wont ever date a man.
my family dont understand.
i'd accept my kid no matter his choice.
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TinyTurtle wrote:
Last-born children tend to...
Be outgoing
Have the ability to “charm” others
Feel inferior to siblings
Be considered spoiled, demanding, or impatient
Develop abilities that older siblings don’t have (see Middle-born children)
Remain “The Baby” of the family- by expecting others to do things for them, make decisions, and take responsibility
Youngest child from three children. I guess what you described are mostly true. I was like that too. Lol. My siblings are older than me by 11 years (brother), and 15 years (sister)
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